When someone is going through a difficult time, we often feel the need to say something. “It’s okay.” “He/she is in a better place.” “I understand.” “I feel you.” “God must have a reason.” “Everything happens for a reason.” “Be strong.” These are phrases we commonly use when someone is grieving or going through a difficult season. None of them are necessarily wrong. In fact, there are moments when these words can genuinely encourage someone. The problem is not always what we